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Anger, Predatory Rage and the Traumagenic Family – Part 3

Author: admin, 05 21st, 2010

Some of the strategies that become apparent in predatory anger are listed below:

  1. Losing control to get their own way
  2. Trains others to avoid them when angry or else
  3. Utilize threats of harm to self or others Read the rest of this entry »

Anger, Predatory Rage and the Traumagenic Family – Part 2

Author: admin, 05 18th, 2010

When looking at the traumagenic family dynamics related to the generation of traumagenic family dynamics, one would notice a continuum of family dynamics.  Perhaps the simplest or less in magnitude would be those behaviors that a caregiver or parent may demonstrate with a small child for example: Read the rest of this entry »


Incest and the Traumagenic Family: Part 2 of 4

Author: admin, 05 06th, 2010

Dr. Jeffrey Young has laid out a system to explain the distortions created in a family this intergenerational transmission is active. Incest is just one possible problem that can emerge as a result of these destructive family patterns. The following text offers a possible explanation to how this dynamic contributes to the emergence of incest and how it becomes a family dynamic that is frequently handed down in a family. Read the rest of this entry »


Book Review – Collaborative Therapy

Author: admin, 03 03rd, 2010

Collaborative, Competency-Based Counseling and Therapy by Bob A. Bertolino and Bill O’Hanlon

One of the most significant aspects of this book is that it presents a structured way to form and maintain positive therapeutic relationships between the client and the therapist. It shows a frank and straightforward way to be respectful and help the client find the strengths and abilities to navigate problems and build a future of positive possibilities.

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Family Communications – Part 7 of 10

Author: admin, 02 03rd, 2010

Family Communication Part #7:  Family Identity – Beliefs, Values, and Attitudes All families have a collective sense of identity, sometimes that identity is an asset to the family and sometimes it is less so.  Family identity or the “this is who we are” is based on a foundation of beliefs, values and attitudes.  This family identity also carries with it a number of attached “shoulds” and “shouldn’ts” that provide the matrix for family interactions to unfold. Read the rest of this entry »


Family Communications – Part 6 of 10

Author: admin, 01 30th, 2010

Hurtful Words: A knowledge of the ways in which words affect you and how your family interact.

Every family has a unique way in which words produce responses.  For example one family might really enjoy movies and insert movie lines to convey large bits of information in a specialized way.

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Family Communication Part 3: A capacity to listen

Author: admin, 01 14th, 2010

How many times have you found yourself planning your response before you have heard all of what a family member is saying?  This fairly common family communication style is frequently found in families where members feel unheard, or unappreciated.  This is a common family pattern with those that suffer from poor self-esteem, and depression.   

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